How to Spank Your Wife

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I had numerous discussions with people that wanted to begin or improve their Christian Domestic Discipline relationship.

The purpose of my piece is to talk about why Proverbs exists in the first place, with all of its apparent contradictions. These rhetorical devices serve the purpose of highlighting degree of importance, and it takes careful consideration to discern just how literal of a read we should be applying to any given verse. Spanking is an excellent tool for a husband to use in marriage in correcting his wife and is ethical for the Christian to use. In the backs of our minds, we have to give ourselves grace enough to say, “I will do better next time” and really mean it. Group Black's collective includes Essence Opens a new window, The Shade Room Opens a new window and Naturally Curly Opens a new window.Moreover, the Bible endorses the use of corporal punishment multiple times, so you really don’t have leverage to claim physical punishment as unloving on any level. It’s bad enough that people are hitting little kids, but now you’ve got a whole group of parents trying to work out the physics of spanking teenagers? Since he has to answer for his wife’s doing wrong then as the leader he has every right to discipline his wife to change wrong behaviors.

These modern day liberals love to cry “domestic violence” but what happens between man and wife should remain between them in private. And with that, we establish a direct connection with real life, as distinct from humor and fiction – which is where it gets complicated, as we shall discover next time. org explains of Proverbs, “Much can be learned about the human mind by thinking about why two particular ideas were placed next to each other; why this verse would have been just like the last one… except for that small, almost insignificant difference and what the words actually mean. With one caveat, it is possible for the adult version to be not abusive and even fulfilling for both adults.I just bet I’m going to have to go back into the hospital for this cellulitis/intertrigo/candidas/strep rash. A sound lashing is five to ten strokes with your hand, or three to five strokes with a strap; some wives need more. If it’s wrong for him to spank you then that’s between your husband and God, your opinion doesn’t matter one tiny bit.

Critics of Abrahamic faiths point to seeming contradictions throughout the Bible as evidence that the Bible is unreliable, not understanding the spiritual value imbued in these differences. A Group Leader is a What to Expect community member who has been selected by our staff to help maintain a positive, supportive tone within a group. None of us a perfect, even our husbands, yet God gently leads us and guides us to repentance through His love. While I don’t believe in switching roles, I can say that the best way to introduce it is to simply talk with her about the nature of the relationship and the need for authority.

And, sadly, harsh spanking has been correlated with a physical decrease in gray matter within children’s brains. We respect everyone’s right to express their thoughts and opinions as long as they remain respectful of other community members, and meet What to Expect’s Terms of Use. Group Leaders aren’t expected to spend any additional time in the community, and are not held to a set schedule.