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Christina: I was in an open relationship with my boyfriend at the time and went to see his band perform during New Year’s Eve alone. I met this couple in line for the bathroom, and we just hit it off. I loved their vibe and ended up putting some glitter on them (I love glitter), and after the show, my boyfriend came and met them as well. We exchanged numbers, and the rest was history. What conversations took place before entering into a unicorn arrangement? Unicorns admit that even people in the swinging community are surprised when a single female arrives by herself at a sex party. Remember to treat your unicorn as a person, not an experience, and avoid expecting them to conform to your every whim. Even though the unicorn isn’t part of the primary relationship, their willing participation is crucial. Treat them with the kindness and respect they deserve. [7] X Research source There can be a lot of disguised misogyny and biphobia in unicorning” says Lucy Rowett, Sex Expert at The Lowdown. “Are you both willing to give your date lots of attention and be mindful of her needs and desires too? Unless it's mutually agreed, be careful not to make this all about what a man wants or create a situation where your date is essentially a human sex toy for both of you. Make sure she enjoys herself and gets what she needs. In fact, if you're looking for a woman to just serve you both, hire a professional sex worker instead.” Maggie: The man was an ongoing friend with benefits of mine, and when he got into a new relationship, I told him that I found her attractive. Then, maybe a few months later, he texted me saying that they had discussed a threesome, and it was on the table. I had never had a threesome before and always wanted to, so of course, I went over!

However, the term is most commonly used to describe straight or bisexual women who join cis-het couples. Why? Well, a woman who’s single, sexually fluid and down to sleep with both halves of a couple can be quite hard to find. Little wonder they’re akin to mythical creatures. Not all bisexual women want to be unicorns

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In your preliminary discussions, like on a dating app, be specific.” Says Rowett. “How will you take care of your sexual health? What barrier methods will you use? Think about what you will do if a man in the dynamic decides he doesn't want to use a condom or makes an excuse? Talk about your turn ons and turns offs, hard and soft limits and your STI status. Even if it feels uncomfortable at first, it means you aren't playing mind games and it creates a much safer and more respectful environment.” The unicorn, on the other hand, has a lot more flexibility than the existing relationship, according to Rennie. “You could be super up-front by adding lines like these to your profile: ‘I love couples, I love threesomes,’ or 'I'm really curious about fooling around with couples. If you're a couple, swipe right.’”

If you're part of a heterosexual couple and interested in a unicorn relationship, it's important to discuss it with your partner first. Be open and honest about what you want and make sure your partner is on board before seeking out a unicorn. I recently had the full-tilt unicorn experience at Hedonism, the granddaddy of nudist resorts, in Negril, Jamaica. I tend to live in a “make your own fun” mindset, but Hedonism is adult fun on steroids. It’s a tropical paradise where anything goes —however you choose to define it. For some, it may be as mild as watching couples on the clothing optional side of the resort. After dark, things get wilder. (I’ll leave it at that and let your imagination run cray cray.)

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There were about 12 couples in a serviced apartment, there was Jatz and cheese and dips. People were standing around making small talk and having drinks, then after about half an hour, a couple of the girls yelled out ‘let’s get started’. So a few couples moved to a bedroom and started getting it on with each other, then some more people joined in. By the end of the night, everyone was naked and having sex with each other” But finding someone for Christmas cuffing season or a great night of no-strings isn’t the only thing people are seeking in December. Because in addition to it being the most wonderful time of the year, it’s also threesome season. Or as many single women, including myself, refer to it, ‘unicorn season’. Record numbers of couples are looking to see out the year with a bang and apps, clubs and bars are full of twosomes looking for a unicorn. What is a unicorn?

Much later, my therapist would tell me this was a complicated arrangement that required emotional transparency between the three of us, something we could never successfully do. They wanted the appearance of a conventional marriage. I wanted more than to be a toy. Sex aside, I like the (generally) sex-positive attention that being a unicorn attracts. At Hedonism, it meant I had an automatic network of friends. Friends who were sexual, but respectful, flirty and fun. People made their intentions clear, but never pressured me to play. I felt safe at every turn, even when there was alcohol and sexed-up endorphins involved. (The environment lends itself to all manners of sexy —at all times.) Consent was a constant, and in my experience, swingers are mindful of boundaries (although maybe not to the same degree as the kink community, but I’ll save those observations for another day). Sitting from my perspective, it was an all-you-can-eat (no pun intended) buffet of straight-up sexual pleasure. What’s not to love? As a unicorn, I’ve had no-strings-attached threesomes and given wives their first ever orgasm from a woman. If you’re a noncommittal woman like me who gets off on giving and receiving, there’s nothing quite as satisfying as giving pinch-hit pleasure. When a woman says, “Hey honey, did you see how she did XYZ,” you know your part in their bedroom is going to fan some super-hot after-the-fact sex. Whether I get off or not, playing that unique role is pretty hot.Those looking for unicorns are called “ unicorn hunters,” a term that sometimes has a negative connotation due to the fact that some couples objectify unicorns or treat their desires as less important. “If a couple does not respect the unicorn and doesn't take their thoughts, feelings, and emotions into consideration, this will not end up well,” Stewart says. Personally, I enjoy being a unicorn, but I have to admit that being a femme woman who dates other femme women can be a nightmare on dating apps. It’s a terrible feeling, repeatedly matching with cute girls and exchanging flirty messages, only to learn that your match and her boyfriend are seeking a three-way. Worse if the boyfriend looks like a thumb, it’s their first ever threesome or it’s his ‘Christmas present’ – meaning you’re expected to be his gift. Rennie recommends couples be forthright in their profiles and clearly denote nonmonogamy when possible. “If you're a couple who's looking, just put that in front of, 'Hey, we're a couple. Here's the pictures of both of us. We're looking for some casual fun, or someone to develop a longer sexier relationship with,’” Rennie says. Eventually he told me, months after she told him, that she didn't want to include me in their sex life anymore. But I didn't know where that left me—I still wanted to be with them. So I did the next best thing to stay involved: I tried on the idea of being someone's mistress. I clung to him and his talk of a long-term relationship with me.